Originally, I think as long as two people really love any other thing you can not do too much care about, but I do not think so, sometimes you do not care does not mean others do not care about. Moreover, some things do not care about, while some things still have to be mean. Example, the marriage must let him buy me a diamond, such a request, then do not care about buying a in my opinion is not so important, but I would ask him after the marriage to my absolute loyalty, which must be to care about, and sometimes think that a woman is to have a certain wisdom.